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  Princess0889

  7 months ago

  I have never commented before but I am an avid reader. I date this way for many reasons many one being I am young and I just don't have time to wait for one of them to get off their period. On many occasions I tell these guys they are not the only one. This is not to say I sleep with them. Most of the time the only thing I may do is kiss but that is about as far as I go.
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  smartenup

  7 months ago

  Interesting article. I like the play on words (pun intended). What if you meet a single black male that only dates monogamous and you are feeling him. If he shares his past with you and your past exploits puts him to shame (something like 3 to 1). What happens if he ask you about yours, do you lie or tell the truth? And what if you had a team and he had way more sexually partners than you. Do you judge him?
  
  Just a question for the ladies.
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  swivel

  7 months ago

  i don't ask questions i don't wanna know the answer to. that's what background checks are for. i had a starting 5 and some bench players back in the day. if i'm single, max 3 maybe 4. one is the favorite, the others are back-ups.
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  Darius Lovehall

  6 months ago

  Two things:
  
  No matter how much you try to perfect the "team" concept , it will always self destruct in some form. No matter if your rotation is 3 or 13 eventually all players will come to a point where the "ring" is the most important thing at the moment, and if ur doing the team thats definitely a no go. T
  
  he team thing should be like your favorite Tapas place order up the menu before you develop your pallet. Once you do just take a bigger portion of what you like?
  
  and 2 from a pure numbers standpoint, If every 1 man only dated 1 women, there would be way more unsatisfied customers than now because of the apparent shortage.............
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  eXclusive

  6 months ago

  How did I miss this blog?! I agree with the brother who posted above me. Either it gets old or maturity sets in. I've done the team thing for much of my 20s; the closer I inch toward 30 the more juvenile (and tiring) the whole concept becomes. I've still got some old benchwarmers and even some MVPs trying to win over my affections but I've outgrown them and the "game". I've got a winner on deck who I'm focusing all my interests on and the feeling seems to be mutual. Suffice it to say, know when it's time to retire from the game and get your mind right.
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